Saturday, April 12, 2008

SPECAIL THANK TO A VERY DEAR FRIEND ....XXXXXXXX

ANNIE MY VERY DEAR FRIEND
WHO WE KNOW FOR 20 YEARS
as a friend she is the best of the best we knew for long time
she will stand by me if I am not happy ,she will run around for me with no complain
becos she always say we are Best pal * no court one *
each time we return to Malaysia for a visit
she will come to pick us up from the airport and bring us back to airport too,
even we stay in KL she in PJ we leave early in the morning like 5am
the last time we went back for my sis wedding specially , I though not to bother Annie,
so I ask my sis can she pick us up at the airport and my sis and her hubby said to me ...* you can get a tax at the airport, it only cost around Rm160 is not a lot to pay for :( * that is wat a family are for!* so Derek say is OK we book a tax when we are there .
But when Annie call me ask me wat my plan when I am back, need help or anything or stay with her , she say her home got lot of place to stay and not a problem to put 5 of us up
and I say is OK we are plan to stay in the hotel is better for the Kids and us for shopping at downtown, then she ask me how you get to the hotel, I say... well! will get a taxi cos my sis and hubby say is too trouble for them to pick us up and taxi only cost so little ,
she was really surprise wat my sis and hubby will say such a thing
she say to me ...
I WILL PICK YOU ALL UP OK .
also is too early to check in to FEDERAL HOTEL WHEN WE ARRIVE
SHE SAY, GO BACK TO MY HOME TO REST AND HAVE LUNCH THEN I WILL BRING U ALL TO CHECK IN AT 1PM
THAT IS ANNIE FOR U
NOT ONLY THIS run around pick us up drop us off with no complain
she even come to the hotel to pick up all my laundry home
for her maid to wash up and iron tidy bring back to me every 2 day .
this kind of friend I really can't find anyway ..
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she is better then my family ...
also here I must make a NOTE ...
someone say about me on her post .... how my relatives treat me during I am back home this Chinese New year and my return to them it to spike on them , I am not the FIRE STARTED .
also I just doing my daughter job to say wat I think is wrong for wat the Fire started had say and
been a Double standard of her and then the whole family point a finger back to me .... incl my very own family ..... I wish to say.... and wat I wat to say....wat is not fair to my parent and I don't think I am wrong to protect my parent,
one of a blogger had say... is a free world of blogger and is your blog you can write whatever you like , but also must remember also a free world to give comment too
and I am just telling the true .
also this trip back home
I didn't trouble my relative and most of my time I spend with my parent and ANNIE home
and the only night I stay with my relative becos my mum say she need to go to their home to help my aunt to pray and also as a family member , I though just to spend a night with them since my mum want me to , honestly I rather to be with my friend then with my... so call family cos I hate to trouble anyone of them , if there give I'll also return it back ,I am a kind of women who will not just take and not give, also I am not a * dog eye * please with ppl with money look down on ppl who are POOR .
But I must say this trip back to Malaysia
the only ppl I own a lot and I can't never
give it back .......
is
this
pair of good friend
my very dear ANNIE AND KELVIN .


ALSO...
many thank to her hubby KELVIN too
who after a long day work and didn't sleep for the night and bring me for
India breakfast and then driver me off to the airport
wait until my fly is off .

Annie will make sure I had eat thing I really want
I enjoy staying with her

above is ANNIE HOME SWEET HOME SHE INVITE ALL MY OTHER BEST FRIEND
for a farewell diner and she treat all of us as a gift for me to say goodbye to my other friend
cos Annie know this trip I only had 2 weeks and I miss out lot of fun with all my other friend .
becos Derek say he give me this ticket to fly back is to visit my mum and dad and to spend time with them and give them the daughter love ......


not having FUN with friend kekkek.
good son in law or not?



below all those picture........


she bring me for shopping trip cos I only got 3 days in KL with her and with my other family
which I got to visit cos I am back for CNY



ANNIE and her little sweetie pie
he is a cheeky boy
love him so much also miss him and his cheeky smile

here this little boy is not well having fever but Annie worry
I wouldn't be able to do all my shopping and eat all those lovely food in 3 DAYS
she bring him with us too .
you all can see my tummy
here I am only 10 weeks preggie


Annie say I must stand here to snap a picture
cos I just got 4 pair of shoe in this shop
is so cheap each pair only cos me .....
£8 hahah.love shoe in Malaysia
I total got 12 pair of shoe when I return to UK .


see my bump .... I don't believe it myself too .

here are all my best friend
will give me all kind of help without second thought
I will rather to ask from them then my ... so call family ...
who will back fire to me .

this post is special to my dear ANNIE AND KELVIN
for all the trouble I give u when I am in Malaysia
thank for your HOSPITALITY
for me and my mum and all those lovely food and all those gift to my kids especially
those lovely pyjamas u get for Stephi and the special trip to get it for her too
she wish to say a big thank to you xxxx<br>also the 2 boy also wish to say thank for all those lovely cloths you got them too !
A HUG AND A KISS AND SOME NICE WORD IS NOT ENOUGH
I JUST CAN'T THANK YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ENOUGH
BUT I KNOW IN MY HEART YOU ARE THE BEST FRIEND THAT HAVE GIVING TO ME
WITH LOT OF BLESSING .
MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU FOREVER
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15 comments:

sweetiepie said...

I feel sad when i hear your relationship with your family members.Maybe I only have one sister and we treat each other like best friend.I don't have close relatives too where they all are always look down on me and my parent.You are lucky to have Annie as a friend.She is indeed a the best of the best.WOW!you got 4 pairs of shoessss...that's alot huh.kekeke!Don't let those unhapiness moment bother you too much.Take care of yourself and enjoy the joy with your closest family members.Hugs :)

winniethepooh said...

it is a blessing and a wonderful thing to hv such a great friend as Annie, right pearly? :) im sure she will be blessed too for being such a wonderful friend..and im sure u will be a great friend to her too if she needs help, i hv no doubt u will be the first to help if u can :)

u take good care and good people will hv good returns right?

*hugs hugs*

Moonlight_tears said...

Dearest Pearly,
You are a lucky person to have such good friends like Annie and her hubby. Those are the type of friends/ people that we should cherished forever. Not that just because they willing to buy you lunch, dinner, let you stay in their house, etc etc, it's their gestures and their sincerity that they shown to you, that deserves it. Also it's the feeling that they make you worthy of their kind gestures. *sigh*, human being and human relation,it's a very complicated thing. Like in many cases, friends are more worthy than own relatives ( sad isn't it)! Well, just remember that you are a very good person inside and out, and you deserve nothing but only the best. I wish you lots of happiness.. and I appluad Annie and her hubby for being such a good person and good friend.

*hugs*
Nicole
PS.Find happiness within your heart, there are many kinds of people out there, if someone sd something not nice, just shrugged it off, furthermore you do not depend on anyone to live your life.

Moonlight_tears said...

Yes I so agree with Winniethepooh, good people always have good karma, don't worry what people think what good you have done. Karma is always there.

dawn said...

Hi Pearly,

It is sad to hear about how your own family is towards you. It's hard to understand how your own family can treat their own blood related so crappily. like what the other commenters said, you are a very kind person. Good things will come to you. You are a very helpful person. The good Lord knows how to rewards your kindness. Annie and Kelvin are definitely god-sent to you and family.

You take care, Pearly.

Oh BTW, I went to Pyramid in Subang, too on my trip to KL. It is a very nice place. I took a picture right at the same spot you had your picture. :-)

PEARLY said...

dear Sweetie pie ,Nicole ,Dawn :
Thank for pop over , this post I just need to say a big thank to Annie and her hubby cos since I am back from Malaysia I having been so not well, and also didn't get around to say a real thank to her . she is a real good friend I am bless to have .
I will do anything for her like she do to me . Nicole have say to be4 * FRIEND IS NOT JUST FRIEND FRIEND IS THERE TO HELP EACH OTHER WHEN THERE IN THE BAD TIME AND ENJOY THE JOY AND SHARE THE HAPPINESS TOGETHER .THAT IS SO TRUE ,
Real friend is hard to find I do really glad I have a few .
yes , wat I mention about the relationship with my family member , I never like to say out loud to tell the world but thing just got too far, that why I need to clear the air out , cos I don't see wat I am doing wrong by up sad when I read someone write bad about my parent ,that is me , as Nicole had say too I need no hand out for food also every family had there own problem no one can't help, we must help ourself , so want I say is wat I mean. honestly, after say it out I feel must more better now , I just got to get on with my own life with my 3kids plus one on it way and hubby ,life is more to look forward then just having WAR with family. thank so much for all of your kind word to me I am so glad I also have real friend around the world too .

p/s
Dawn I also love the Pyramid in Subang wow those shop I just wish I can have another day there to shop and eat those food hahah.u must bring there picture out and post to the blog we can have a good look heheh:)

To all my dear dear friend in USA .
have a lovely Sunday xxxxxxxxxxx

PL

PEARLY said...

my dear dear winnie :

holly lovely to see u back , I know u will pop in on and off , I do miss u so much please just write a post out and tell us wat u up too lately so miss you.
Yes I know I have Bless to have a lovely friend like Annie and her family , I think as myself I always believe on Karma too * Wat come around goes around * I will stand up for my right but I never ever will hurt anyone . sometime I will let it go even hurt but sometime over the top I will blow.
I think human don't have to be so mean ,especially with family , how we dislike we still family .anyway
I have blow out the sad air I feel much more better now.
still I am so glad *God is always nice to me bless me with lot of real good friend all around the world like YOU xxxxx

take care my lovely friend xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sue said...

It's great to have a friend like Annie which is rare. Most family members are like that selfish...I guess all families are like that. I only am close with my immediate family...the rest is history...hehe

Cat Cat said...

Sis Pearly,
That's very sweet of Annie to do things for you. It's indeed hard to find a true friend.
I just couldn't believe when you said no one is willing to pick you guys up at the airport.

Of all our visits home, there were either my sister and her family or my brother and his wife to pick us up at the airport and also see us off. I have to say, I'm blessed with such a nice family... Sorry didn't mean to rub salt to the wound, but was rather disappointed to read what your family did to you. Take it easy. If you ever come to USA, give me a call. My house is always open to you and your family.

Wennnn said...

Yes best frens are hard to find especially the ones like Annie. Am glad U hv found one.

But then... if ur family has been so nasty to you I wonder who has been giving you a helping hand all these while??? Are they not your family memeber??? U always thinks that frens are better off from your family but you hv never realized time and time again you have said words that hv hurt them the most but they still stand by you. I am your sister and I hv the right to say this becoz you hv hurt me with your words so many times that a sister shouldn't hv said but each time I hv to forgive and forget.
Yes your frens here in the blogger world thinks that you are kind and a saint but why dun U tell them the truth wat hv U said or commented in your youngest sis's post???

Hv you not been welcome at all by your so call family at their place???? Hv they not treat you like a family all these while??? Hv we been that nasty to you all these while??? HV we not help you when you need help???

*BTW: hv you ever thot of how ur bro in law and ur sis gonna pick U up from the airport when there were 5 of you and plus the driver there wud be 6 ppl in de car??? At tat time they only own 1 car and how they gonna come and pick you up besides suggesting to get a taxi which is much easier??? Annie owns a 7 to 8 seater of course she can come and pick you anytime.. Wat if she owns just a normal car???? B4 you comment pls do think too how others will feel..*

I hv been quiet enough reading the post and din bother to say anything but with ppl rubbing in salt and think that our family is crap I think I shud VOICE OUT TOO!!! If you think tat our parents are better off to give birth to 2 eggs rather than both your sisters becoz they just wanted to solve the problems then I am sorry I am just an EGG and not ur SIS!! These are the words that you hv not only hurt both your sisters but to prove tat you only know how to talk how much you care for your sisters but you do not know how to PROVE IT!! And also dun continue to say in the blog how much you care and love us!!! You dun mean it dun say it dun even talk about it!!!!

PEARLY said...

dear wen :
As I say this is a free blogger world , also a free comment too .
whatever .....
you like to say about me .....
As a big sister I have done my best to help both my sisters when there need me and I am not a saint like everyone think I am, I have made my mistake of wat I say to you and also I have apologize to you on that point and since then I have regret WAT i HAVE SAY AND I TRY TO RETRACT MY MISS PLACE WORDS .
as A BIG SISTER I ALWAYS THERE FOR YOU AND JAN ,from the day you came to UK and help Jan all the time with money
HELP FOR ME FROM MY SIS ....
LIKE ? ASK ME TO DIVORCE MY HUBBY WHEN i HAD A BAD TIME WITH HIM ... OR HELP ME babysits MY CHILD WHEN i AM ON MY CONFINEMENT OR visit me when I had postnatal depression during my pregnancy and end up killing myself ?
HOW OFTEN YOU BACK TO VISIT WHEN YOU WITH YOUR EX BF ?

I have nothing to say to you .
you have your life now with your family and I have mine .
I know in my heart I never betray my mum and dad and I know who give birth me and I wouldn't stand for crap when some one try to hurt them .

I didn't start this Bitch family war fight is you dear dear mummy daughter PAM ok .

thank for your lovely comment I will keep it in mind forever .I am such a suck sister .xxxxx

PEARLY said...

dear sue :
thank for your support . I guess you do understand xxx
have a nice day xx

PEARLY said...

dear Cath :
oh yes! we are bless to have such a friend
like my sis say about car for 5 ppl can't get into .. hhaha we get into a taxi at the train station with 5 of us and 4 suit cases and is a 5 seater
inclu the taxi men he put our suit case on the top of the taxi my kids think there is well cool hahahah until today my steph still remember she ask me to tell you hahahah

thank for you open arm I will put this in mind .
we will also welcome you and your family to our home sweet home to if you wish to visit Euro and make sure you come to UK
I also can babysit for you if you and robber want to honeymoon to ROME >> Promise no problemxxxxxx

Penny said...

Pam did not start any war, she merely wrote in her blog how she dreads changing sheets. When u were here u shud know that she is not the kind of person who tidys the room.

It was you yourself who opens your own can of worms.

See what happens when you simply shoot? One of the stray bullets is bound to rebounce back. I say, U'd leave some room for amendments. Hope you all will not end up in a non turning back point.

PEARLY said...

Dear Aunty Penny :
If you say SO after all PAM is your daughter wish I could have a mum like you so understand of a daughter .
I didn't start all this pam have wrote one post after one , I have say wat I say .
I didn't see I am in the wrong we never write anything about you or your family I always respect you and love you dearly too but I will not happy if someone saying thing like this to my very dear mum and dad after all you are staying in wen /my mum and dad home when trhere in KL for DR visit also there not even wanted to stay in your home by saying all this ...
watever la .... if you say so
after all you all are one big family .....

take care have a lovely day ...
thank for lovely comment too