Tuesday, October 14, 2008

WHAT TO DO WITH HER ......................

THIS LITTLE girl ..... she use to be a
very good girl will do whatever we wish her to do for us ......
NOW
I DON'T THINK SOOOOOOO

I sometime wonder still wonder !!!!
wat have I done to myself but when I look at this little baby boy
my heart melt I do love him every bit same as all my other kiddo .

Since Aden born I haven't been out the house alone with him much .
also I just feel my life is no longer mine anymore
I don't have time for myself even eat ...
I use to bake and cook so much now I just so lazy and not bother at all
I will wait until the last min only go to the kitchen to do a fast and easy dish ,
also I get so angry all the time , life just no life I feel all the time , even when I wake up in the morning I so wish to go out to walk around the shop ....
but
when I think of all the trouble I got to do to pack baby thing milk car set etc ....
holy I rather to stay at home and not go anyway ,I get so angry when I see my house a big mess
after I just clear up in the afternoon be4 kids come back from skol ,just feel angry and tire all the time ,I sooo wish I don't have to go throughout all
Especially every night got to have a go at steph ...and angry with her in big time
she is getting to be a BITCH everyday ,
she will go on the net all the time and when we say something to her ,she will talk back that make me so cross ..... someday I just feel like walk out the house and never turn back , I am so useless can't control my kids wat the point to be here !

wHEN YOU THINK .....
All this time we look after them warm them love them ....
once there grown up there turn into a monter to us ... wat the point !
HELP .....
I so wish



I think I am too old to be a mum for a youmg baby
dont think I can cope it well !

12 comments:

Sweetiepie said...

Ya i put all my time into my kids too.Sometimes I also worried that my elder girl won't listen to when she reach 11-12 years.I don't like the car seat and buckle up the kids too.So tiring and sometimes i don't like feel going out too.Take care.

adrian said...

Don't be too hard on urself. Kids these days are exposed to too many things, the net, tv, mobile phones, influence from friends, etc. But as they grow older, they will come to their senses. Hopefully.

pearly said...

hi dear Sweetie pie:

yeah huh ! now a day kids ..... all so lucky and still not happy , only girl behave like this, my 2 boys is happy goes lucky I ask them yesterday any problem at skol there all say no , there happy to help when I ask them , my steph now 14 still jeolues on little Aden , she is sooo spoil !

pearly said...

Dear Adrian:
I agree with you ! Now a day we spoil our kids so much give themthe Best and worry them in big time, in return there say we are control thier life .....
like u say I just got to pray hard everyday hope one day she will grown up and not turn into a bitch lor !

Moonlight_tears said...

Hugs to you. You are a very good mom. One day Stephy will understands how you dotted on her and returns it with all the love she can give. Give her time lar, coz everyone know you are a good mom and have done your very best. Pls don't say you are too old to be a mom. You are always the beautiful kind caring mama...lucky mom that your kids have. Pls take care, and remember to eat..very soon Aden gonna be a big boy and it's just gonna get easier...then you can cook and bake all the food and anything you want, I will go visit you too so I can help finish up all your yummy in the tummy food..heheh.
love, Nicole

ICook4Fun said...

Come here my dear. Let me give you a big hug. I hope you are feeling better today. Your daughter is at her teenage year and most teenager are like that. They like spending time on the net and will answer back when you talk to them. 3 of your kids are grown up so they should be helping you around the house. You are a good mother and there is no doubt about that. Don't be so hard on yourself. You should take sometime off to yourself. Leave the kids and baby with your husband once a while and go out and have a cup of tea and take a breather. It can be overwhelming being in the house all the time. Take care my dear!

dawn said...

Hugs to you, Pearly. It's that age when teenagers rebel the most I guess, coz I was there once. I wish I can take vacation to visit you...someday, ok? :) Take care and be strong.

Hor ny Ang Moh said...

Aiyah! Do feel like that lah! That is why the Chinese has a saying 'Mummy is the best in this world!!!' But u don't heard the saying 'Daddy is the best!!!' :(
He! He! Who is that sexy ang moh chah poh??? The nanny arrr???
Oh! Ang moh baby is so very cute!
Well I am sure all yours kids love u, He! He! The naughty wan will of cause feel jealous!
Tq very much for pokeing into both my sites ( one boring one horny)! Really appreciated! Have a very nice day to a great mummy!

Aiyah Nonya said...

Oh, Pearly,

I can empathise with you. Because tht is how I feel most of the time too. Except for a new baby.

Relax, breath in and out....

We know that it is only a phase the kids and parents have to go through.
But being right in the middle of it is no fun at all.

What else can I say...

Send some hugs to you and rant all you want here, we are ever willing to hear.

Does that makes us kaypoh ???

Have a lovely weekend.

Moonlight_tears said...

hahah, horny ang moh cracks me up. Pearly, he asked who is the sexy ang moh girl??? heheh, too funny. Horny ang moh, if you happened to read this comment, that sexy lovely ang moh girl's mommy is also a beauty ler. Like mother like daughter. Go figure! Also dont you wnna pinch that ang moh baby's cheek????? He is so adorable!

winniethepooh said...

*hugs hugs pearly* ure a great mom, dont let anything makes u doubt that ok..

she's just at the 'teenager' age, i remember i used to d tat at times too when i was her age. After a while, when we grow older, then we will start to appreciate our mom again :)

whenever u need help, just let the kids and derick know so that they can all help u, release some stress for u yeah!

take care!

Moments In Time said...

Pearly - I don't have kids yet but I remember when my sisters were Steph's age, exactly like that la, love to talk back, everything also they know better [my time, dare not talk back cos mom & dad will give one tight slap... my sisters are a lot younger so my parents say they have 'mellowed'!]. Anyway, just be cool la, she probably just want to see what your reaction when she talk like that to you, so if you ignore it and play cool, she'll lama-lama become tired. You're doing a good job so don't feel discouraged!

*Hugs*