Today Aden is 9 mouths and 5 days old

my little Aden had grown so much each day he change
he getting very cheeky and he know wat he want and wat he don't want
so smart
he know .......
PUDDING
is yummy
so he will turn his face off when I give him diner and when he saw me give him pudding he will open his mouth.
gosh! there learn fast to be cheeky .

look at him wat a mess

he got 4 teeth now
just start to sleep over the night but still need to have the night feed at 3 /4am
but good thing is I make the milk give it to him he will hold the bottle himself when finish he will through the bottle out and sleep until 7am get up ready to go to nursery .
one bad habit he got is he will pooo in the morning at 8 am , time when I getting ready to go to work
EVERYDAY ...:(
but every morning before I change clear nappy on him
I put him in the toilet he will do a weeee for me .
so I hope sooon he can do poo and wee on the toilet can save money on nappy :)
finger cross .:)

last week we have a special visitor arrive .....
is BEATRIX
SHE HAD GROWN ... MY GOD
she is so cute
kids non stop talking about her so clever she can wink and sight talk
steph try to teach Aden to WINK
but THIS BOY not going to do it :(

looking at the 2 of them play together make my heart melt

hope there can see each other more and get to know each other MORE closed to each other .
cos there are the closed age .




closer look at the 2 of them do there look a like ?

HOME SWEET HOME ........ EVERY ONE DREAM

Every women dream .... A home is a women heart from one bedroom to 6 bedroom big home *if you lucky*
I think out there most of a couple work very hard for it.
Home is not only build by one personal Home is build up together .

WHY and WAT I am talking about ??
Yes ! Today I receive a text from some ONE ....
saying *I am pathetic I always make out as a Victim *
I have a lovey 4 bedroom home 4 gorgeous kids a husband that loves and provides for me and a family *Bend over backwards for me and I complain I am INVISIBLE .
she say .... *YOU ARE LUCKY!*
There are so many people that would kill to have that, she is trying the hardest to have a nice home and kids etc.......
so ... pearly just be thankful for what you have and stop try to find problem .

This make me very very up sad and cross ......@( .
I am very thankful wat I have , I also very THANKFUL wat my husband who always stand by me , support me when I need him he is there for me .
I also thankful that I have giving 4 good kids.
But I never think I am a victim .
I am piss off when some time .... lot of thing is make up by people around us , make our life problem , self invite themselves to our home bossy around us wat to do, telling us how to bring kids up ... * when she had non of her own * the best for our kids etc......
As a wive plus mother, I'm trying my best to give and understand my family but sometime women do have her moment doesn't mean a victim or feel sorry for myself , it does .... me and hubby long gone divorce but we still stay strong and together for the pass 15 years .
by her saying MY HUSBAND PROVIDES EVERYTHING FOR ME .....
I am sorry to say ........ HELLO DEAR our home sweet home is not only hubby work I also work my ass out , me and hubby work very hard *FOR OUR HOME* .
having a lovely home NOT ONLY the husband provides ONLY.
I non stop working after Brandon born been a cleaner in the morning and work in the restaurant during the evening, no help wat so ever from anyone from the family, becos everyone have their live,we can't sit and wait for help all the time, I never complain about this, also never expect help from anyone . my kids my family my problem deal with it .
so PLEASE don't give me the CRAP.
when my 3 KIDS young , hubby don't earn lot so when Bondon one mouth old ,I kick my ass out to work in the restaurant during evening 3/4 night a week to earn some money , so I can help to pay for the food weekly for the family , sleepless night with baby the next day still go to work .
Now with ADEN I kick my ass out to work early instant off for half a years to 9 mouths and GET THE LITTLE MONEY FROM benefit .becos I can earn more money by working early instant of sit my big ass at home WHO DON'T WISH TO PLAY BABY AT HOME , if we can !
sorry we can't at this moment in time .
This time I am lucky then I work at a place who give me 50 % discount on my childcare cost . if not I will be end up working night, so hubby can look after baby after work like we use to never see each other no weekend family out ............... .*JUST WORK FOR ME *
we wouldn't be able to pay for childcare cost with the full price .
BUT I also work hard to provides everything for our family .
so please my dear don't open the gob and tell me I should be greatful .
you want a home a nice home with kids ..... get your ass out to work harder not sit home and feel sorry for yourself and tell people how to run their life .
I am so PISS OFF and angry after read her text .
who she think ...... telling me like this ...


HOME BUILD BY TWO PEOPLE NOT ONE ONLY REMEMBER THIS XXXXXXXXXX

up date April 09 ...... busy busy

I am back in action............

Yes ! I am back in action .
Hubby away to Holland for work ...
as for me I am having my one week holiday start from .....
next week but today I looking out the window
I can't stand all those Grass so long...
I went out to tidy so next week I can just chill in the garden and not bother

To Be honest I kind of enjoy cutting the grass ...
Now I know .. WHY MEN LIKE TO TELL THE WIVE ... I am going to tidy the garden
is kind of get out ...... from all those noise... wive and kids ..
I really feel this way when I 'm cutting the grass ,, I feel so peaceful and relax
the only thing in my mind is the motor running and I can only smell the lovely green grass not baby pooo and sick baby milk :P ,
it feel so nice
no baby crying no .... angry of the other 3 monkey not helping me with Aden ......
well ...
Today I really work very hard after I finish our back garden and I am going to do the front garden......
Guess ....? who offer help me to finish it the front garden ?
the only one who will work .......



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This year ............. I also do up lot of hanging basket and pot flower
I have stop for the pass 3 years
this years I got lot of cheap offer bedding
so
it time
to
make my lazy bone work hard
all those lovely flower still a baby ...
soon I can be proud to post my flower basket :P

so
Wat DO YOU THINK ?
DID I DO A GOOD JOB
AS A WOMEN ..?

My daring son ..
he come out to help me today and when he saw I finish the back garden he say to me he will help me to do the front garden
he do a very good job
well done darling xxxxx

OLIVER also come out to help to pull those grass out
now the front and the back garden look very tidy
I also do up a few more basket today
now the whole house full of flower basket
and pot plants ...
my front garden now very tidy
Aden also enjoy lot of sun and play around the garden today
steph babysit Aden when we all out in the garden work
everyone got a JOB :)

WE ALL FINE

SORRY NO NEWS FROM US ........
JUST TO DROP IN TO LET EVERY ONE WHO LOVE US KNOW WE ARE FINE NOW .
WE ALL HAVE BEEN VERY POORLY AND ME IS ALSO SICK AND BUSY WITH WORK AND LOOKING AFTER ADEN AND OTHER COS WE HAVE THIS STUPID VIRUS MAKE THE WHOLE FAMILY SO SICK ...
GOSH .. THANK GOD NOW WE ALL FEELING BETTER NOW.
WILL BE BACK TO UP DATE EVERY BIT SOON
MISS YOU ALL
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sorry no Update for Devon..........:(

we all very poorly Especially Aden ........
He get the Flu Virus and tummy bug .... had a very high fever ... vomit out everything he eat and pooh ...... all the way ...
as for me I am having a flu and bad cough .....

will be back ......... when we all get better ..
we lost hope for Aden cough at the end we USE the chines herb for Baby ,,,, wow it help him stop the Flame a bit ... gosh ... some time chines herb does do the JOB after he had suffer the cough for 4 mouths since my friend pass on the flu to him .

ONE after Another virus attack ...... Poor... Aden :(

Easter BREAK at DEVON

YES ! DEVON ....... we love to go down to Devon
well long holidays break
we went to visit Mum and dad
and
meet up with all the brother and sister and little kids
I got to admit I do love Devon
look at the about Picture
is really lovely Green every where you go
so blue the sky and so green the field

so lucky we went on Friday afternoon
at our place is Grey and raining whole day ;(

when we arrive Devon the sky was Blue and sunny
that is wat I looking forward FOR :P

when we arrive to mum and dad home
it was already pass 6pm
we didn't go out just have diner at my In law home
then kids meet up with their cousin
Jamie and little beauty MILLY
she had grown up a lot the last see her so pretty too *sorry no picture of her .
then
the next day
we get up very early
WHY ???
Cos Aden get up early and wake us all up
so we bring him out for a walk for some fresh AIR

we drove around the country side
pass all those lovely field and see little young baby lamb
cow and Green green field

Then we arrive to this lovely big home
which NOW own by
The Notional trust

there having a egg hurt
Look at my 2 boys is hurting EGG
this tree is very long long years
is so lovely
for
XMAS deco:p
we walk around this place

Here my first out door picture with my Baby ADEN
on a very sunny day

THE STABLE AND CARRIAGE MUSEUM





THEN
we walk pass a very big lake
lovely view every way we go we see animal

here the tea room we can have Devon cream tea
which I enjoy the most :P
look at those lady there all dress up
like
Vitoria time walk around the house
they are COOK , dress maker, house keeping and ect.....

this my first time see a white PEACOCK
oh my god
she is a beauty

she walk around the whole place no bother

here another COLORFUL PEACOCK
HE is so lovely too

I am at the front of the main house
I am so surprise to find out in side had lot of collection of antic from china
really more then 200 years old I guess
History of Miss Rosalie Chichester

about
this
place
*click on below *
ARLINGTON COURT

we finish walking around this place at 3pm
then
we got to bring my beloved daughter
to do her cloths shopping at


ATLANTIC VILLAGE

all for today
more update tomorrow about our trip at Devon

HAPPY EASTER 2009

WE WISH YOU
A
VERY
HAPPY EASTER & GOOD FRIDAY
A
RELAX
ENJOY
LOT OF LOT OF
CHOCOLATE


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BARGAIN BARGAIN BARGAIN ..........

SPRING ARRIVE
BOOT SALE ALSO RETURN

BARGAIN
TIME

yesterday
A LOVELY SUNNY DAY
WE GET OUT EARLY 10AM OUT OF THE HOUSE......
HERE GO CAR BOOT SALE
I just can't believe it
when I find this
all those lovely plate
only cost me £7
there all already 20 years old
is hand make print from JAPAN
special for M&S
each one cost new £15/£16 each

still in the box
as new
I just love china were
there all so lovely
wat do you think ?not only got those ....
I also got lot of good and big big
Bargain





guess wat
heheheh


TOYS
LOT OF LOT OF
TOY
FOR
ADEN
LOOK

I only had £10 on me when I went to bootsale
I buy all those toy I run out of money
so I got to ask Hubby for £7 to pay for my china were
I am so proud of myself when I get bargain
after finish playing all those toy
I can resale again to make money
hehheh
is call recycle
RIGHT
more about
ADEN TOY
click here

MY mother day gift on 22 march 2009 from my Beloved KIDS and HUBBY

Those lovely card and gift are all specially choice giving by
my lovely four kids

Orchard is from Stephanie .
Easter rabbit and the little small red box chocolate is from Oliver .
Big bunch lovely flower is from Brandon and big box of chocolate also
he had hand make me a mother day card too !
the little card is paint by little Aden .

About card
Left card is specially make by Brandon
Right card is specially paint by little ADEN



Stephanie also very busy the week near mother day , she went and baby sit for 2 days ,
so she can buy me a lovely Orchard for mother days .
Oliver never go out to work but he save up his daily pocket money to buy me some chocolate.
on sat he went out with Stephanie to tesco to get me gift on his way home
he pick up some Daffodil give it to me he tell me he got no money to buy me gift SO he pick up some daffodil for me , hope I don''t mind , I told him , cos I don't is the thought court I tell him I know he had no money to buy is OK I love wat I get , then on the day mother day he give me chocolate and tell me he know I will think he give nothing hahah.:P but he did went out to get me something nice .

LOOK AT BRANDON FACE

HE IS SOOO PROUD OF HIMSELF
WHY ?

let me tell you WHY
on the day before mother day 22 of march 2009
he woke up early in the morning is sat around 10am he went out
on his own after breakfast , he tell me he got to go out to do some car wash .
I say OK .
around 11.am he come back with a small bunch of white lily is my fev flower
he give it to me and smile tell me is my early mother day gift , he just went and wash 2 car and get £5 so he can buy me some flower , I tell you my heart is so happy .....
then he also give me a card he make at school .is so lovely he tell me he wanted to buy me orchard which is my fev flower but he only get £5 and the shop selling Orchard is £21 . I tell him is OK I love lily too , I say to him I am very happy whatever he get me .
then he want out again for about 1 hour lated ............
He walk in with a bigger bunch of flower plus a small teddy and a big box of chocolate,
he tell me he went out to wash car and get pay £10 cos one of the car owner is so kind to him pay him £10 to just wash one car , he spend it all on me to get me more gift for mother day . I feel so love by my son , I tell you my heart .... I can't tell u How happy I feel .......





Then ........
MY HUBBY ....

That mother day weekend , I am so busy is the last weekend I help my girlfriend to work in the restaurant, Henry ask me.. can I help on Friday sat and Sunday 3 days , I went home Derek say he would love to go out on Friday as a family for a family meal, it been a very long time since we went out as a whole family to restaurant .. so I call Henry and turn down the work on Friday .
I told hubby don't wast money on me on mother day have a lovely family meal out I am happy and to save money not to worry about gift, cos I don't want him to spend any cos he got to get his mum some flower on that day , also during mother day all those flower will be sky high .... also on Sunday *mother day* I am working .
SAT night I went to work and Stepha also went out to baby sit for my friend ENA , next thing is get a call from ENA she is poorly , need to admit to hospital , I told her not to worry I will pick her kids up after me finish work, at 11pm I finish my work and I rush to her home to pick up Stepha and her daughter bring them back to me , I look after her daughter over night and the next morning she call , she need some cloth ask me to get thing at her home , so I rush to her home to get thing for Ena bring to the hospital , at 12pm need to work at the restaurant ... gosh tell u is a very rush for me .....
I pick up some cloths from Ena home and bring back to my home cos need to pack her some food cos she is hungry arrive my driver .... I saw a big car drive up to me , a young boy jump out the car say to me ........ a delivering for Pearly xxxx .. I reply I am pearly
he say here some flower for you ...
My Jaw is drop......................... Who get me a big bunch of flower

WELL
is my hubby .....
wat a super SURPRISE


HUBBY wasn't in when flower deliver
EARLY ........
he is angry /worry becos he book the flower and I am running around for my Friend like a headless chicken and work , he worry I wouldn't be around when ppl deliver those flower but ..... thank god I was there .
the thought of him didn't wast it .

I just feel so .................. love by my family

I love you all
and
THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH


I am so lucky to have all your love

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